Gabby Petito Murder: Where Brian Laundrie’s Sister Cassie Stands With Their Parents Today
Days after the release of Netflix’s American Murder: Gabby Petito docuseries detailing Gabby’s 2021 murder by her fiancé, Brian Laundrie’s sister clarifies her relationship with their parents.
Brian Laundrie’s sister Cassie Laundrie is mourning the loss of more than just her brother.
In Netflix’s detailed account of Gabby Petito’s 2021 murder by her fiancé—who was found dead by suicide a month later—in American Murder: Gabby Petito, Cassie shared that she was “just as upset, frustrated and heartbroken as everyone else” by the series of tragedies.
And when it comes to her relationship with their parents Christopher Laundrie and Roberta Laundrie—who in 2024 settled a lawsuit from Gabby’s parents Joseph Petito and Nichole Schmidt that alleged they withheld information about Gabby’s murder as well as the whereabouts of her body—Cassie clarified there simply isn’t one.
“I am losing my parents and my brother and my children’s aunt and future sister-in-law on top of this,” she explained in the docuseries released Feb. 17. “We have literally been finding everything out with the news like everybody else.”
But while Cassie has made the deliberate decision to distance herself from her parents due to the situation, the Petitos also spoke out against her, saying in the three-part docuseries that their many attempts to contact Cassie during the weeks their daughter was missing went unanswered.
Since the series’ release, Cassie has also defended herself on social media, making it clear that she has no loyalty to her parents and no involvement in her brother’s crimes.
“If you’re new here,” she wrote in the caption of a Feb. 17 Instagram post. “And just starting to attack me today. I’ve been non contact with my parents for almost two years. Have fun.”
In the same post, she went on to deny the Suffolk County detective Tracey Barry’s report at the time, alleging that Cassie recounted Brian telling her he flew home leaving Gabby at a Wyoming hotel amid her disappearance.
“No one from my family contacted me until detective Barry called me,” she noted. “Det. Barry gravely miscommunicated what I told her in the phone.”
Meanwhile, her parents’ attorney blatantly criticized the docuseries, sharing that its framing is exactly what the Laundrie family had “expected.”
“One perspective depicted as the ‘truth’ as seen through their lens,” their attorney Steven Bertolino said in a statement to The Sun. “Each side believes their perspective is correct. Hard to see through the lens of the other with all the noise and distrust.”
Without going into too much detail, the lawyer continued to discredit the facts presented as true in American Murder.
“The documentary contained many inaccuracies, incorrect juxtapositions of timelines, and misstatements and omissions of fact—perhaps deliberate to capture their ‘truth,’ perhaps due to simple error,” he continued. “We all know Brian took Gabby’s life and Brian then took his own as well.”
To see more bombshells from Netflix’s American Murder: Gabby Petito, keep reading.
Gabby Petito’s Family Thought Brian Laundrie Was Nice, But…
“I thought he was a little socially awkward but very polite,” Gabby Petito’s mom Nichole Schmidt said of Brian Laundrie in Netflix’s American Murder: Gabby Petito.
“Kinda quiet,” noted Gabby’s stepfather Jim Schmidt. But, said Gabby’s father Joe Petito, Brian “shook your hand, looked you in the eye.”
Gabby and Brian got together after high school—love at first sight, he’d tell friends of the moment he saw her outside a deli and pulled over to talk to her—and after less than nine months of dating she moved to Florida with him to be closer to his family in December 2019.
Rose Davis, a friend Gabby met in Florida, said of hanging out with both her and Brian for the first time, “It felt like a parent was watching us on a play date. It was very weird.” Brian was “very nice,” she added, but Rose remembered going home and telling her mom, “there is something off about him.”
“That just started becoming more and more clear as our friendship progressed,” Rose said. “Brian had a very dark side of him.”
Brian proposed in July 2020. Nichole said she found out Gabby was engaged from Brian’s mom Roberta Laundrie posting about it on Facebook.
“She didn’t want to tell anybody,” Nichole said. “I thought that was really strange.”
Gabby’s stepmother Tara Petito said she found it “a little bit shocking” that Brian didn’t ask Joe for his daughter’s hand before popping the question.
Gabby was excited and happy at first, Nichole said, “but as time went on, she kind of lost that excitement.”
Brian Laundrie Didn’t Support Gabby Petito’s #VanLife Dream
Rose recalled how much Gabby loved working at Taco Bell, the job she took to help her pay for her beloved white 2012 Ford Transit Connect van. But Brian “started feeling neglected and having this possessiveness” over Gabby, she said.
In text messages between Brian and Gabby shown in the series, he disparaged her job and called the people she worked with “low lifes,” writing it was “f–king disgusting” she had become one of them.
He managed to make her feel bad about making him feel bad, which resulted in her feeling undeserving of Brian’s love, Rose said, “and he wanted her to feel that way.”
“I think there was a moment before her van life that she started to open her eyes,” Rose added. Gabby was getting “more frustrated. I think it was all clicking for her, the more it went on.”
Still, Brian looked amiable enough in the footage Gabby shot as they embarked on their #VanLife odyssey in July 2021.
But according to Rose, he didn’t think much of his fiancée’s dream and mainly went along for the ride to have her all to himself.
“If I get her away from her job, I get her away from her friend, she only has me,” Rose said of his motivations. “And then, next thing you know, they were gone.”
Gabby told her, Rose continued, that Brian thought her vlog idea was “stupid.” But, she added, “I think he was worried that the truth of everything would be on footage. There’s that possibility he says the wrong thing or reacts the wrong way while she’s recording.”
The Cops Gave Brian Laundrie the Benefit of the Doubt
On Aug. 12, 2021, a witness called 911 to report he had seen a man slapping a woman on the side of the road in Moab, Utah, after which they drove off and the van they were riding in hit a curb.
Body cam footage from the Moab City Police’s encounter with Brian and Gabby that day was aired weeks later during the investigation into Gabby’s fate.
But it remains shocking to see Gabby basically taking responsibility for their physical altercation, telling officers she had anxiety and “really bad OCD” and Brian really stressed her out but had been trying to calm her down.
Brian had scratches on his face from Gabby’s phone, he said, per the body cam footage, telling police he was trying to push her away as she attempted to get the van keys from him.
When a cop asked Gabby how she got bruises on her face and arm, in the footage she kept saying “I don’t know.” But she had been yelling at him, she said, and told police, “I guess I hit him first.”
One officer told another, per the footage, that “from what she’s claiming, she’s the full-on aggressor here.”
A cop then escorted Brian to a hotel known in the area as a refuge for victims of domestic violence, while Gabby was given the keys to the van and told where, an officer said, she could get a cheap hot shower to “decompress, destress a little bit.”
The couple were ordered to refrain from contact, including texting, until the next day, but they reunited that night and soon were headed to Salt Lake City.
The Police Footage Was Eye-Opening for Gabby Petito’s Family
“She never told me about their fight in Moab,” Rose said in the series, having noted that Gabby had FaceTimed her every few weeks from the road, “but I’ve seen her that upset before, because of him.”
Recalling how she felt finding out about the 911 call and viewing the police footage for the first time that September, Gabby’s mom Nichole said in the series, “I watched my daughter looking frightened to death. That’s when I realized that things were way worse than I could have imagined.”
And “to see the distress my daughter was in, and then [cops] laughing and joking around [with Brian],” Nichole continued, “I could not believe that she was being treated as an aggressor.”
Gabby Petito Texted Her Ex-Boyfriend From the Road
Gabby’s ex-boyfriend Jackson (no last name given) said in the series that he heard from her out of the blue on Aug. 22, 2021. They had dated for about a year before she started seeing Brian, he noted, and had talked about doing the #VanLife thing together. So, when he heard about her adventure with Brian, he was a little wistful, but also happy for her.
“I’m sure I’m the last person on the planet you want to hear from,” she wrote in a text shown in the series, adding that she was “only alone until tomorrow,” if they could talk before then.
He later considered her reaching out “a cry for help.”
On the phone Gabby “hinted” that she and Brian had an argument, Jackson recalled, and she said “I have a plan, I think I want to leave him.” She just had to figure out when, she told him.
“I think that she wasn’t sure of what he would do, or what he could do,” Jackson said. “I think she was wanting to get away but just didn’t know how to do it.”
Gabby Snapchatted him on Aug. 27 saying being in Jackson Hole, Wyo., reminded her of him. She also called him later that day, at 1:45 p.m., Jackson said, but he was at work and couldn’t answer. That was the last he ever heard from her.
“Maybe if I did answer that phone call,” he said, “I could have helped or there could have been a different outcome.”
Gabby Petito’s Parents Tried to Get in Touch With Brian Laundrie’s Family
On Aug. 27, Gabby texted her mom: “I’m fine. I convinced Brian to go camp out in the woods so I can have the van to myself. It’s what he wants to do anyway. I don’t care. He said I could have the van if I paid him.”
Nichole asked in a text if they were breaking up, to which Gabby replied, “No I just said I could make more money as a solo female van lifer. I’m driving to a campsite now.”
Further texts to Gabby went unanswered. Nichole received one from her daughter’s phone Aug. 30 that struck her as weird, she said, because it referred to Gabby’s grandfather by his name, Stan, instead of “grandpa.”
Having heard nothing from Gabby since, Nichole said she texted Brian’s mother, Roberta, on Sept. 10 and got no reply. When she attempted again, she said, the bubble had gone from blue to green, an indication to her that either Roberta’s phone was off or Nichole had been blocked.
Gabby’s dad Joe also tried contacting Roberta and Brian’s dad Chris Laundrie, as well as his sister Cassie Laundrie, to no avail, Joe said in the series. Including, he added, when he texted that they were calling the police.
Laundrie family attorney Steven Bertolino told The Sun in a statement after its Feb. 17 premiere that the docuseries “contained many inaccuracies, incorrect juxtapositions of timelines, and misstatements and omissions of fact—perhaps deliberate to capture their ‘truth’, perhaps due to simple error.”
He noted that “each side believes their perspective is correct. Hard to see through the lens of the other with all the noise and distrust. To be clear though, there were no contradictions by my clients Chris and Roberta Laundrie.”
E! News reached out to the Laundries’ attorney ahead of the series’ premiere but did not hear back. The series noted that, through their lawyer, the couple declined to provide a comment. (At the time, Cassie told reporters that she and her husband were getting updates about the case from the media and didn’t know what was going on with her parents or brother. “We are just as upset, frustrated and heartbroken as everybody else,” she said.)
This Was When Gabby Petito’s Parents Knew Something Was Really Wrong
On Sept. 11, North Port, Fla., police officers went to Roberta and Chris’ home to see if they had any information about Gabby’s whereabouts.
The cops’ body cam footage from that night shows Chris telling them that Brian was inside, he had nothing to say and the police could call the family’s attorney.
As heard from the footage and audio recordings, police in North Port and New York’s Suffolk County, where Gabby’s family lived, were at a loss as to what to do next, since there was no proof yet that a crime had been committed.
But the van Brian and Gabby had been traveling in was parked in the Laundries’ driveway and, because Gabby’s name was the only one on the title, police were able to promptly tow it away.
Finding all of this out, Nichole recalled in the series, “My body would not stop shaking…I knew something bad happened.”
Added Gabby’s dad Joe, “We started screaming.” Stepmom Tara said, “I collapsed.”
Friend Rose noted, “I just lost it, to be honest. I was screaming, ‘What did he do? He did something, what did he do?'”
Brian Laundrie’s Mom Wrote She’d Help Him Get Rid of a Body
When authorities returned to the Laundrie house on Sept. 17, Brian’s parents said he wasn’t there, they hadn’t seen him for three days and they wanted to report him missing, FBI Special Agent, Tampa Division, Loretta Bush recounted in the series.
Among his belongings at the house, the agent continued, was a letter from his mother, on which she’d written “(burn after reading).”
“You are my boy, nothing can make me stop loving you. Nothing will or could ever divide us, no matter what we do,” Bush read. “If you are in jail I will bake a cake with a file in it. If you need to dispose of a body, I will show up with a shovel and garbage bags.”
In the series, both Rose and Tara called the letter “disgusting.”
Nichole said, “It made me sick to my stomach.”
Asked about the letter in 2023, Roberta said in a statement to NBC News that she wrote it months before Gabby died. “I was trying to connect with Brian and repair our relationship as he was planning to leave home,” she said, “and I had hoped this letter would remind him how much I loved him.”
Investigators Detailed Brian Laundrie’s Attempt to Create an Alibi
On Aug. 29, Brian made “a flurry of calls to his parents,” Bush said. “They contacted each other multiple times. We learned that he told them Gabby was gone and he needed a lawyer…At which point his parents wired money to a lawyer.”
In the series, Joe remembered thinking, “You’re going to throw $25,000 of your hard-earned cash out on a lawyer from f–king Wyoming? And you’re telling me you didn’t ask where she was? That’s some bulls–t.”
Gabby’s stepdad Jim alleged the amount couldn’t be for “anything less than to represent somebody for murder.”
Using cellular data, investigators explained that Brian kept texting Gabby after she died, so his messages weren’t read on her phone until he was back at the Spread Creek Dispersed camping area in Bridger-Teton National Forest, where her phone was.
“The activity between the two phones was almost instantaneous,” Special Agent Bush explained. “He was holding both phones and talking directly to himself. It was apparent that he was trying to create an alibi.”
Brian started the drive to Florida on Aug. 30, using Gabby’s debit card to pay for gas at multiple stations along the way, per the FBI. He sent the text about Gabby’s grandfather to her mom and sent himself a Zelle payment from Gabby’s account for $700, as if she were paying him for the van.
The transaction memo read, “Goodbye Brian, I’ll never ask you for anything again.”
Joe Petito Remains Haunted by Thoughts of Daughter Gabby’s Last Moments
Gabby’s body was found Sept. 19, 2021, by members of the official search party in the Spread Creek Dispersed Camping Area.
She was lying in the fetal position on her left side, wearing a hoodie. The coroner determined she’d been strangled and had blunt force trauma to her head and neck.
An agent noted in the series, “She was not laying in a natural position,” leading them to believe she was killed elsewhere and the crime scene had been staged.
Gabby’s stepdad Jim was in town for the search. When he saw a photo of her body, “just left there like she was a piece of trash by someone who was supposed to love her,” he “collapsed to the ground,” he recalled in the series. He then called Nichole, Joe and Tara.
“I got a phone call that I’d never see my daughter again,” Joe said. Tara called it the worst day of their life.
“I think about the last moments a lot,” Joe continued. “I’m sure she was scared. And anytime she was scared she would call me or Jim, [Tara] or Nicki, so I don’t know who she called out for.”
Gabby Petito’s Family Didn’t Buy Brian Laundrie’s Version of Events
Brian’s skeletal remains were found Oct. 20 in the Carlton Memorial Reserve. His death was ruled a suicide from a gunshot wound to the head.
In a waterproof bag found nearby, there were pictures of Brian and Gabby, as well as a waterproof notebook in which he wrote that she’d been injured and he “ended her life” to take away her pain.
But from that moment, he added, “I knew I couldn’t go on without her.”
There were also letters in the bag, including one stating, “Please do not make life harder for my family, they lost a son and a daughter.”
Nichole reflected in the series, “I always found it odd that he wrote in there, leave my parents out of this, they didn’t do anything wrong.”
Jim said, “Not one of the versions of Brian’s account was accurate by the findings of Gabby’s autopsy. The sole cause of her death was strangulation and nothing remotely or even close to what he said.”
A judge awarded Gabby’s family $3 million in a wrongful death lawsuit they filed against Brian’s estate in 2022. Another suit they filed against his parents, for intentional and reckless infliction of emotional distress, was settled in February 2024.
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Days after the release of Netflix’s American Murder: Gabby Petito docuseries detailing Gabby’s 2021 murder by her fiancé, Brian Laundrie’s sister clarifies her relationship with their parents.
Gabby Petito’s Family Thought Brian Laundrie Was Nice, But…
Brian Laundrie Didn’t Support Gabby Petito’s #VanLife Dream
The Cops Gave Brian Laundrie the Benefit of the Doubt
The Police Footage Was Eye-Opening for Gabby Petito’s Family
Gabby Petito Texted Her Ex-Boyfriend From the Road
Gabby Petito’s Parents Tried to Get in Touch With Brian Laundrie’s Family
This Was When Gabby Petito’s Parents Knew Something Was Really Wrong
Brian Laundrie’s Mom Wrote She’d Help Him Get Rid of a Body
Investigators Detailed Brian Laundrie’s Attempt to Create an Alibi
Joe Petito Remains Haunted by Thoughts of Daughter Gabby’s Last Moments
Gabby Petito’s Family Didn’t Buy Brian Laundrie’s Version of Events
A new interview with Gabby Petito’s parents reveals disturbing details about the case
ABC’s Eva Pilgram speaks exclusively with Gabby’s parents amid Netflix doc.
Grieving parents wish to turn their tragedy into a purposeful mission after losing their daughter to domestic violence. Following the death of Gabby Petito, her parents discovered warning signs through text messages.
What was trumpeted in 2021 on social media to be the adventure of a lifetime for Gabby Petito and her fiancé Brian Laundrie turned out to be deadly.
Petito and Laundrie planned to spend months visiting various national parks in America and Petito started a blog and a YouTube channel to document their journey.
The vacation turned tragic when Gabby Petito went missing. Her body was found on Sept. 19, 2021, in Spread Creek in Grand Teton, Wyoming.
“They said we found remains consistent of your daughter,” Gabby’s stepfather Jim Schmidt told Eva Pilgrim, co-anchor of GMA3 and ABC News Correspondent, in a new interview for “20/20.” “I remember I was crying, and I said you have to be sure, like I have to be sure if I’m making this phone call. They showed me pictures and I confirmed it was our daughter.”
Almost four years after her death, Gabby Petito’s parents shared in a new Netflix documentary never-before-seen texts they found on her phone after her death and what they discovered regarding Laundrie and Petito’s relationship.
The family found an alarming text in Petito’s phone that reads:
“Don’t try to control me because it only makes me mad,” Gabby wrote in the text to Laundrie. “I love you so much but it’s the way you speak to me that hurts me the most.”
They also found a letter Gabby wrote to Laundrie, which gave them a glimpse into their relationship.
“Brian you know how much I love you,” Gabby wrote in the letter. “Just please stop crying and stop calling me names. You in pain is killing me.”
A “20/20” broadcast airing February 21 at 9 p.m. ET on ABC explores the life and murder of Gabby Petito and includes the new interview with Petito’s parents and their spouses who raised her following the release of “American Murder: Gabby Petito,” a documentary series now streaming on Netflix.
Petito lived with her family in Blue Point on Long Island, just outside New York City. By high school, she had a large circle of friends, one of whom was Laundrie.
“I liked Brian,” Petito’s mother Nichole Schmidt said. “I thought he was– interesting. He was very soft-spoken. He would sit and do art with the girls, my– you know, Gabby’s younger sisters. He got along with TJ, her brother, and he just seemed like a nice person.”
After high school, Petito and Laundrie began dating and when things got serious, they relocated to Florida to be closer to Brian’s family. They moved in with his parents.
In July 2020, after dating for a little over a year, Gabby and Laundrie went on a camping trip and got engaged. Gabby’s parents said they didn’t find out about the engagement until someone congratulated them on Facebook.
“I’m an old-school person, and as an old-school person the one thing you do is you go up to the father of the person you wanna marry and you ask him for their hand in marriage, or parent, ask ’em for their hand in marriage,” Gabby’s father, Joe Petito, said. “That didn’t happen. We found out on Facebook. All of us did.”
Due to COVID-19, wedding planning was put on hold, so Petito and Laundrie made plans to travel the country, and they were outfitting a van for their trip.
The couple set off on their adventure with big dreams. Petito began documenting every move on social media, aiming to capture an audience like many other influencers.
“She always had that creative eye,” stepmother Tara Petito said. “I mean, she always enjoyed taking photos. We would go on vacation and she had her GoPro. “She would take videos of us doing things. So I think that’s something that she always really enjoyed to do. So why not try to make it as a career?”
Before the couple left for their trip, the family saw them when Petito and Laundrie returned to New York for her brother TJ’s high school graduation. They didn’t know it would be the last time they’d see Gabby.
While Petito and Laundrie were traveling, in Moab, Utah, a witness called police in August 2021, reporting a man hitting a woman. Officers pulled over their van, and after questioning both Gabby and Brian, the officers determined that Petito was the aggressor after she admitted having physically hit Brian first.
The police didn’t arrest Petito; instead officers decided to separate the couple for the night. Petito was allowed to leave in the van, while Brian, perceived by the police as a victim of domestic violence, was taken to a hotel for the night. The next morning they resumed their trip.
On Aug. 27, Petito’s mother received a strange text from Gabby’s phone: “Can you help Stan? I keep getting his voicemails and missed calls.” Petito had never called her grandfather by his first name, which was suspicious.
Another text mentioned they were going to Yosemite, when they’d previously said they were going to Yellowstone. “I questioned it, but then I thought there was fires out that way,” Nichole Schmidt said. “Maybe they had to reroute. Maybe Brian did send the text. Maybe she’s driving the van.”
After not hearing from Gabby for more than a week, on Sept. 11 Schmidt reported her daughter missing to the Suffolk County Police in New York. Investigators later found that Laundrie had returned to his parents’ home in Southwest Florida with Petito’s van, but she was not with him.
Three weeks after the search began, Petito’s body was found on Sept. 19, 2021.
Once Petito was identified by her stepfather, an autopsy was performed and revealed that she died from strangulation. Authorities ruled Gabby’s death as a homicide. Laundrie was identified as a person of interest.
Police attempted to speak with Laundrie at his home, but instead his parents referred police to an attorney. Shortly after Brian Laundrie was also reported missing by his parents. After a nationwide manhunt, 37 days after he was reported missing searchers located his remains on Oct. 20 at Carlton Reserve, not far from his home. Authorities determined that he had died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
Among Laundrie’s belongings authorities found a notebook. The attorney for the Laundrie family publicly released the pages from the notebook in which Brian admitted to killing Petito, claiming that he acted out of compassion after he says she had a bizarre accident and was suffering from unbearable pain. The Petito family has said that they do not believe Brian’s version of events.
The FBI released a statement regarding their conclusions in the case: “The investigation did not identify any individuals, other than Brian Laundrie, directly involved in the tragic death of Gabby Petito.”
Petito’s parents have established the Gabby Petito Foundation to combat domestic violence and assist in locating missing persons. The foundation aims to ensure that anyone in a harmful relationship receives the help they need to escape it.
“She made a difference,” Joe Petito said. “People saw a beautiful soul, and she had an impact that changed the lives of a lot of people and the world. There’s no more amazing legacy that you could have.”
If you need help or need help supporting someone else, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788 or chat online at TheHotline.org. All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7.
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